Although funeral rituals are universal, they remain a sensitive subject for many of us. Between the feeling of taboo and a lack of information, many misconceptions persist around funeral ceremonies. This can make it difficult, even anxiety-provoking, to make decisions when someone dies or when planning your own prearrangements.

At Complexe funéraire Aeterna, we believe that every person deserves a final tribute that reflects who they were, respecting their values, beliefs, and cultural heritage.

To help you make informed choices, we have prepared this article that demystifies 5 common beliefs about funerals and celebrations of life.

 

Myth #1: Funerals are always religious

The belief that a funeral ceremony must follow a religious framework is still widespread. However, funerals can be just as meaningful in a secular context.

Funeral rituals, whether religious, spiritual, or secular, all have a common purpose: to honor the memory of the loved one and say goodbye with dignity. At Complexe funéraire Aeterna, we organize funeral ceremonies that respect the wishes of the family and the deceased, whether they are religious or not.

 

Myth #2: You can't pay tribute to a loved one creatively

The traditional image of a funeral ceremony is sometimes perceived as rigid, even impersonal. However, there's nothing stopping you from being creative when it comes to honoring a loved one.

At Complexe funéraire Aeterna, we believe that every life is unique and that their final tribute should be too. Our experienced team is here to listen to your ideas and help you organize a personalized funeral ceremony that is both authentic and memorable.

Whether it's sharing photos or videos, readings chosen by family and friends, decorations inspired by the departed's passions, or a meal featuring their favorite recipes, the possibilities are endless. We are here to help you create an event that truly reflects the personality of your loved one.

 

Myth #3: Family members are responsible for organizing funerals

In the absence of funeral prearrangements, the organization of funerals does indeed fall on the shoulders of family members. During a period of mourning, this responsibility can be a heavy burden, both emotionally and financially.

That's why it's wise to plan your funeral arrangements while you're still alive. This forward-thinking gesture not only relieves your loved ones of difficult decisions but also ensures that your wishes will be respected down to the smallest detail.

Our family advisors are available to guide you professionally through every step of the planning process.

 

Myth #4: Funeral rituals offered in Montreal are exclusively Christian

Montreal is a city of many cultures and traditions. This diversity is reflected, among other things, in the funeral rituals practiced there. Contrary to popular belief, funeral ceremonies in Montreal are not exclusively linked to the Christian faith.

Complexe funéraire Aeterna offers funeral services tailored to many religions and cultural traditions. Thanks to our multilingual team and extensive network of partner celebrants, we support families from all backgrounds: Chinese, Haitian, Portuguese, Italian, Greek, Vietnamese, Armenian, and many others.

We offer rituals appropriate to each person's beliefs, and our services are available in 13 languages, including French, English, Arabic, Mandarin, Greek, Vietnamese, Creole, and several others.

 

Myth #5: Farewell ceremonies are reserved for burials

Many people associate funeral ceremonies with burials, believing that cremations are always simple affairs without any tribute.

In reality, cremation does not exclude the possibility of a final farewell. It is entirely possible to hold a personalized funeral ceremony before or after cremation.

At Complexe Aeterna, families can organize a cremation ceremony in our modern and welcoming rooms. It is possible to attend the cremation and pay your respects in complete privacy. Our reception room also allows you to extend this moment by sharing a meal, in a spirit of togetherness and tradition.

 

Complexe Aeterna: your trusted funeral partner

Funeral rituals vary according to individual beliefs, cultures, and values. They can be simple or elaborate, religious or secular, traditional or creative. The most important thing is that they accurately reflect the person being celebrated.

Located in the borough of Saint-Laurent, close to Highways 40 and des Laurentides, the Complexe funéraire Aeterna is easily accessible to families in the greater Montreal area.

Whether you wish to organize the funeral of a loved one or plan your own funeral arrangements, we invite you to make an appointment with our team to discuss your needs.

 

FAQ (frequently asked questions)

 

Can we organize a funeral without a religious ceremony in Montreal?

Yes, Complexe funéraire Aeterna offers personalized secular ceremonies that respect the values of the deceased and their family while providing a highly meaningful moment of remembrance.

 

What is the difference between burial and cremation in terms of rituals?

Both options allow for a fitting farewell ceremony. Aeterna can assist families in organizing funeral rituals, whether burial or cremation, according to their wishes and beliefs.

 

Who should consider funeral prearrangements?

Anyone who wants to spare their loved ones the logistical and emotional burden of organizing a funeral can plan their funeral ceremony during their lifetime through prearrangements. This allows them to express their wishes, as well as free their family from this responsibility.